Month: February 2026

Beyond Grindr: The Best Gay Social Apps for Making Actual Friends (and More)

Let’s be real for a second: if you’ve ever opened Grindr hoping to find your next best friend or maybe a cute coffee date that doesn’t immediately involve the question “your place or mine?”, you’ve probably been disappointed. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with hookup apps (we’re sex-positive here at Read with Pride), but sometimes you …

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Miles Apart but Heart to Heart: 10 MM Romance Books That Prove Long Distance is Worth the Wait

Let’s be honest, there’s something weirdly romantic about missing someone. That ache in your chest when you see a notification from them. The way you count down days (or hours, or minutes) until you can be together again. The late-night video calls where you fall asleep watching each other’s pixelated faces. Long-distance relationships are objectively …

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Better Late Than Never: The Courage of Coming Out Later in Life

Coming out later in life represents one of the most courageous decisions in LGBTQ+ experience. An estimated 3 million LGBT adults in the United States are age 50 and older, with 10% of LGBTQ+ adults coming out in their 30s, 40s, or beyond. For those discovering their truth after decades, Dick Ferguson’s collection offers authentic …

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The Billionaire Fantasy vs. Financial Reality: 10 MM Romance Books Where Power Imbalance Actually Works

Let’s be real for a second: we’ve all fantasized about being swept off our feet by someone with a penthouse view, a black Amex, and a jawline that could cut glass. The billionaire romance trope isn’t just alive and well, it’s practically its own food group in the world of MM romance books. But while …

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Thicker Than Water: The Radical Power of Found Family

For many in the LGBTQ+ community, “family” isn’t just something you’re born into, it’s something you build, brick by brick, heart by heart. Found family is the safety net we weave for ourselves when the one we were given has too many holes. It’s the radical act of choosing who gets to witness your becoming. …

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Public Love vs. Private Struggles: 10 MM Romance Books That Handle 'The Closet' with Grace and Honesty

There’s a particular kind of heartache that comes with loving someone you can’t fully claim in public. The stolen glances across crowded rooms. The careful distance maintained at family gatherings. The ache of dropping someone’s hand when you round a corner and see familiar faces ahead. For many in the LGBTQ+ community, the closet isn’t …

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The Visibility of the "Vague": Celebrating the Bisexual Spectrum

Bisexuality isn’t a phase. It’s not indecision. It’s not confusion. It’s a complete, valid identity that deserves recognition: not erasure. Yet bisexual men continue facing invisibility in both mainstream and LGBTQ+ spaces, pressured to “pick a side” or prove their authenticity. This needs to change. Read with Pride celebrates bisexual visibility through authentic MM romance …

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The Fear of Losing Your Best Friend: Why Friends to Lovers is the Most Heart-Wrenching (and Rewarding) MM Romance Trope

You know that moment when you suddenly look at your best friend differently? When the laugh you’ve heard a thousand times makes your heart skip? When their casual touch on your shoulder sends electricity through your entire body? Yeah. That moment when you realize you’re absolutely, catastrophically in love with your best friend. And then …

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The Digital Disconnect: Finding Real Intimacy in an App-Driven World

We were promised connection. Swipe right, match instantly, meet your soulmate by Thursday. The queer dating app revolution was supposed to liberate us, no more cruising bars, no more wondering who’s into you, no more small-town isolation. Just open the app, and there they are: hundreds of gay and bisexual men within a five-mile radius, …

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Why He Didn't Text Back: The 'Ghosting' Trope in MM Romance vs. Reality (And 5 Books That Get it Right)

You know the feeling. You had a great date. The conversation flowed, the chemistry was there, and when he said “Let’s do this again soon,” you actually believed him. You sent a follow-up text. Maybe even two. And then… nothing. Radio silence. The three dots of hope never materialized. You’ve been ghosted. Now, if this …

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The Unconventional Path to Parenthood: Building a Legacy Your Way

Parenthood in the queer community often requires a level of intentionality that is both a challenge and a gift. It’s not just about biology; it’s about choice and the radical act of imagining a future. For gay and bisexual men, the path to fatherhood rarely follows the script society hands us. Instead, we write our …

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Situationship Fatigue: Why We Crave 'The One' and the Best MM Romance Books to Help You Believe in True Love Again

You’re Not Broken: You’re Just Tired Let’s be real: if you’ve spent the last year (or three) texting someone who won’t define the relationship, getting breadcrumbed by guys who say they’re “not ready for anything serious,” or repeatedly falling for the same emotionally unavailable patterns, you’re probably exhausted. Welcome to situationship fatigue: that bone-deep exhaustion …

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The Green-Eyed Monster in the Mirror: Understanding Jealousy and Possession in Relationships

Jealousy gets a bad reputation. We’re told it’s toxic, immature, a red flag waving frantically in the relationship breeze. But here’s the truth: jealousy isn’t the villain: it’s the mirror. It reflects our deepest insecurities, our attachment wounds, and our fear of not being enough. When we feel that green-eyed monster stirring, we’re not experiencing …

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Open Relationships in Gay Romance: 10 MM Romance Books That Explore ENM Without the Toxic Jealousy

Let’s talk about something that’s actually pretty common in the queer community but rarely gets the spotlight in MM romance: ethical non-monogamy. You know, the relationships where everyone’s on the same page, communication flows like a well-oiled machine, and jealousy doesn’t automatically equal drama and destruction. Here’s the thing, open relationships, polyamory, and various forms …

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Stripping Down the Shame: Nudism and the Path to Body Positivity

In a culture saturated with filtered selfies and digitally-enhanced perfection, social nudism offers gay men and the broader LGBTQ+ community something revolutionary: radical self-acceptance. This isn’t about sexuality or exhibitionism. It’s about stripping away shame, literally and figuratively: to discover the quiet power of being authentically, unapologetically yourself. Breaking the Mirror: The Pressure of “Perfection” …

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Enemies to Lovers MM Romance: 25 Gay Romance Novels Where Hate Sex Leads to Actual Love (Not Just More Problems)

Let’s be real: if someone told you their relationship started with mutual loathing, aggressive banter, and maybe some angry hookups, you’d probably tell them to run. Fast. But in the world of MM romance books? That’s not a red flag, that’s foreplay. The enemies-to-lovers trope is one of the most beloved in gay romance novels, …

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Twice the Love, Half the Credit? Reclaiming Your Space as a Bisexual Man

Being bisexual can sometimes feel like standing in a doorway, you’re not quite in the room on the left, and not quite in the room on the right. You exist in the threshold, visible to everyone yet somehow invisible at the same time. For bisexual men navigating gay and queer spaces, this unique form of …

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The Corporate Camouflage: Finding Authenticity in the Professional World

Every Monday morning, thousands of gay and bi men across the globe perform the same exhausting ritual: putting on their corporate camouflage. It’s not just the suit and tie. It’s the careful editing of weekend stories, the strategic pronoun shifts, the invisible armor we wear to navigate conference rooms and water cooler conversations. We become …

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Are You Making These 7 Communication Mistakes? Best MM Romance Books That Get Emotional Honesty Right

Let’s be real: communication in relationships is hard. Communication in gay relationships? Sometimes it feels like we’re playing emotional chess while blindfolded. Between internalized stuff, the pressure to be “perfect” partners, and the fact that nobody teaches us this shit in school, it’s no wonder we mess up. But here’s the good news: some of …

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